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13th November 2019 
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I am a Counsellor and Psychotherapist based in Freemantle, Shirley, Southampton SO15, serving the city, the New Forest and the surrounding area

Welcome to my webpage.

Let me introduce myself, my name is Pam Tibbles, my aim as a counsellor and therapist is to help you to feel happier and settled in your life and relationships.

I currently offer a free 30 minute initial therapy consultation to discuss what’s troubling you with no obligation to commit to further counselling sessions.

Call me on 07590 496631.

Where I Can Help

I am an experienced counsellor and therapist working with people who are having difficulties with:

  • Anxiety, Depression and Stress
  • Relationship Problems
  • Managing family dynamics
  • Separation and Divorce
  • Anger Issues
  • Lack of Direction
  • How to cope
  • All forms of Abuse
  • Traumatic Life Experiences
  • Bereavement, Grief and Loss
  • Redundancy, Work place and Pregnancy Issues
  • Depression and Low self esteem
  • Addictions and Eating disorders

What will you achieve from coming to counselling and receiving therapy?

Counselling is a talking therapy that gives you the opportunity to talk about your past and current problems, exploring your thoughts and feelings in a safe, comfortable environment free from judgements and preconceptions.


“Thank you for all your support over the last few months, you have really helped me have a better mindset towards everything. Considering the place I was in when I came to see you, you have listened to me and helped me so much and I can’t thank you enough, counselling works!” D in Eastleigh

“When I was looking for therapy in Shirley, I liked Pam’s website because she looked friendly and I felt I could relate to her. I felt comfortable with Pam as she was in tune with me, I felt heard and we had formed a unique relationship where I feel valued”. L in Shirley, Southampton

“I’d like to thank Pam for all her help and understanding of me over the last 7 months. Talking to Pam has really helped me when I was feeling very low and confused and now feel and see that there is a light at the end of the tunnel and I’ve come out feeling really good and happy again. Pam is the best counsellor I’ve ever had and I would really recommend her.” B (male) Totton, New Forest

“You’ve helped me with so much and I appreciate all you do. Thank you for everything, therapy has made such a huge difference to my life.” A in Freemantle, Southampton

“Thank you for allowing me to talk about my past, I can now let it go and move on feeling able to cope better, having therapy has made me so self aware.” B in Totton, New Forest

“I never knew therapy and just talking could be so helpful, being able to just say anything to Pam and know she doesn’t judge me has made a huge difference to me.” P in Shirley, Southampton

“Counselling with Pam has really helped. Thank you so much, I feel better and different and able to manage my life.” J (male) in Hythe, New Forest


My counselling practise is based in central Southampton, in a purpose built cabin in a peaceful garden in Freemantle, Shirley, Southampton SO15. There are good transport links by road and public transport from Totton, the New Forest and Southampton, Chandlers Ford, Eastleigh, Romsey, Ashurst, Eling, Bramshaw, Ower, Wellow, Lyndhurst, Brockenhurst, Cadnam, Calmore, Copythorne, Beaulieu, Hythe, Minstead, Fritham, Bransgore, and all the villages in the New Forest.
My practice is a 10 minute walk from Southampton Central Train Station, and a 15 minute walk from Westquay Shopping Centre.